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Getting over a breakup

LeelaHarth

Getting over a breakup

LeelaHarth

, el Miércoles, 27 de Mayo a las 19:09h
Getting over a breakup is one of the hardest things a man can do.

However, the most important thing you need to know is that you will get through it.

How do you reduce the time it will take? Do you want to find a partner again? More importantly, what is the best way to use that time to get out of it ten times better than you went into the situation? While getting over a breakup is never easy, there are some ways you can make it easier.

Keep your distance
This is a problem.

You have to create distance between you and your ex.

This is important for you to mentally get over it.

It´s also absolutely necessary to get over the breakup itself.

Erase her from your social networks and don´t lurk on her page.

The more you do this, the longer it will take you to get over her completely.

Take a little space for yourself.

It´s the only way you´ll be able to get over the breakup.

Investing time in yourself
At the same time, start using your time and energy to invest in yourself.

Go to the gym, go to a class, do all the things you wanted to do when you were in a relationship, but never felt you had the time.

This is the perfect time to work on yourself.

Not only is it a timely distraction, but it will also help you a lot when you finally get over it and start meeting new women.

Going out
Eventually you´ll have to go out again and start meeting women.

There will never be a perfect time for this.

In fact, you may have to "force" yourself to do it at first.

The point is to just go out and be sociable.

You´re not looking for someone to replace your ex.

Instead, it´s about having fun, taking it slow, and making the most of the whole process, rather than looking for the next long-term relationship.

Remember to have fun as this will be the most important step.

Setting goals for yourself
As you go through the process of getting over a breakup, you should set goals for yourself: How many times a week will you go out? How many women do you want to talk to when you get to this point? How many phone numbers do you want to get? How many dates do you want to go on?

You should focus on quality over quantity.

Don´t choose to talk to tons of women.

Instead, set modest, achievable goals that require some stepping out of your comfort zone, but not too much.

Remember that you are focusing on quality, so don´t feel you need to get a bunch of girls´ phone numbers just to meet the quota you set.

Focus on making real connections with the women you talk to, getting their phone numbers, and hopefully go out on dates for casual relationships, but only with the women you are most attracted to and interested in.

With this series of small tips you will soon be able to resume the thread of your love life, whether you find a partner who meets your expectations, or simply want to have occasional relationships until you find the woman who can be part of your life again.

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